Summer, my wife, and I are going through The Five Love Languages book. We read it over 10 years ago and while I was hesitant to go through it again, I have a new perspective and a lot more insight than I did a decade ago.
My love language is words of affirmation. Tell me I'm going a good job and my love tank is all filled up. However, this brought up some nuances in how words of respect and encouragement ought to be used between a husband and wife.